A sense of security gives children inner stability, confidence and trust in others; A sense of direction allows children to know the direction and think well in space … But do you know the sense of order? Sense of order means that "human beings can predict the regular movement changes by observing the surrounding environment, so as to determine the acceptance of information." A kind of human feeling, children have a psychological need to pursue order, but they are often ignored by parents, and even think that children are unreasonable. Here are a few examples to let parents know about their children’s sense of order. Maybe your baby will do the same.
1. Seats for dinner. When a family is eating, the children insist that their mother should be left, their father should be in the front, their grandmother should be on the right, and so on. If anyone sits in the wrong position, the younger ancestor will insist that others sit back. 、
2. Answer the phone. If there is a landline at home and a call comes, the child must answer it himself, say hello, ask who the family is looking for, and then pass the phone to the adult.
3. You must say good night before going to bed. It’s time to go to bed, and the children ask the adults to say good night, and then they will go to bed and don’t talk. If they do, they will say good night again.
4. Ring the doorbell and press the elevator. When you go to someone’s house, you have to ring the doorbell. Children have to ring it themselves, and adults have to pick it up if they can’t reach it. So is the elevator. Adults will be very unhappy if they press it.
In addition, guests and children at home must open the door, use their favorite bowls when eating, put the keys on the cabinet, etc., which seems to be "obsessive-compulsive disorder". Many parents feel speechless and think it is useless, but think about it yourself, you may have these seemingly unreasonable behaviors when you were a child. These are actually the embodiment of children’s pursuit of order. Parents should give them an understanding and give them a good environment to help them create a good sense of order, which is very helpful for their character development.
1. Give children a sense of security. The child’s mind is very fragile, and the sense of order allows the child to know what will happen later, rather than being in a state of ignorance. Once the sense of order is destroyed, familiar things have changed, which will make children feel anxious and panic.
2. Let children think clearly. Children observe the outside world and maintain order, which helps children to develop good habits, such as throwing garbage into the trash can, putting things back when they are used up, saying thank you after buying things, etc. All these are good habits developed through a sense of order.
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