In the examples of students’ plastic surgery we have seen, the mother usually plays a more enlightened role, while the father needs to be patiently persuaded or even beheaded.
It is certain that, in most cases, women tend to pursue external appearance more than men.
Studies have shown that women’s demands for cosmetic surgery can be divided into those who encounter "discrimination" and seek self-confidence, those who consume fashion for self-satisfaction, those who are motivated by interests, and those who are motivated by crisis.
"There were three people in our dormitory who had plastic surgery at that time"
A college graduate in Zhejiang plus plus
Ocular complex, costal cartilage rhinoplasty
"When I was in college, I opened an online store to earn money for plastic surgery, and my family didn’t know it. I think it’s my own business. When I got home, my mother asked how it became a double eyelid, and I said that I would have a double eyelid sticker, and she believed it. There are three people in our dormitory who have plastic surgery. One has done it since high school, and the other said that since she was a child, my mother has saved some money to prepare for her plastic surgery in the future. Recently, I just had a costal cartilage rhinoplasty surgery, which cost more than 60,000. Loans 30,000 a lot. If I save money, when will I save enough? In fact, I can’t save money if I earn 10,000 or 20,000 a month. I don’t want to wait."
Reporter’s notes:
After graduation, Gaga took out her own loans. However, she did not support school loans, saying: "There are a lot of online loans now, and some are profitable. If you borrow 10,000, you have to pay back 100,000. Most of the students’ income comes from their parents, and they feel that it is not good to use their family’s money."
Subtle Mindset
"I don’t think this is cosmetic surgery. Cosmetic surgery should be done like some celebrities do."
Huihui, a college student in Hebei
Cut double eyelids
"I feel that no one thinks that cutting double eyelids is cosmetic surgery. Now it is at most called" micro-surgery ", and cosmetic surgery is the kind of" rebirth ". It is also very annoying to put double eyelid stickers on every day. But I regret it a little after finishing it, and recently I started to feel that it is better for myself. I am not running for cosmetic surgery, maybe I am curious? If someone told me that cutting double eyelids is cosmetic surgery, I should not try it. I can accept this phenomenon, but I cannot accept doing it myself. I think cosmetic surgery is still a sensitive topic, and many people will not ask if they see it. Don’t celebrities admit it? Maybe it is low self-esteem."
Reporter’s notes:
The definition of cosmetic surgery now seems a bit vague. Ten years ago, no one would have said that a double eyelid cut was not cosmetic surgery. Today, many people think it is not at all.
Although common minor surgeries like double eyelid removal are actually still classified as plastic surgery.
As time went by, the concept changed.
However, people’s opinions did not change simultaneously, which made cosmetic surgery a somewhat delicate topic.
Calm type
"Don’t think about using plastic surgery to reach the pinnacle of life"
A Zi, a college student in Jiangsu
Hyaluronic acid filling cheeks, thread carving rhinoplasty
"I saved the money from doing a part-time live broadcast by myself. I just feel better after finishing it, and I will feel better. I am saving money to do fat filling now, and I still hope to look better. But don’t get your hopes up. Cosmetic surgery is just something that improves your happiness in life, not something that changes your life. Don’t think about getting to the top of your life. It can change your face but not your heart. If you still feel like you have no confidence or connotation, then you have just gained a better skin than before and have no ability to make it shine."
Reporter’s notes:
Li Bai said in "Concubine’s Life": "The hibiscus flower of the past has become the grass of broken roots. It will be better for others to do things with sex." In random interviews on campus, several classmates extended the poem in modern language.
No matter whether you are a friend or a lover, it is generally believed that "people are seen in stages", "you may look at the face at the beginning, but of course you still look at the inside when you get along for a long time."
Some people say that a person’s appearance after the age of 40 is determined by their upbringing.
"What does a perfect face look like, Fan Bingbing or Li Bingbing?"
Pumpkin for a college student in Beijing
Fixed-point double eyelid surgery
"I went to plastic surgery because I had a quarrel with my boyfriend at that time, and I was in a bad mood. I wanted to find something to do by myself. I might want to get my nose fixed in the future. But even if I have money, I won’t keep doing it. Cosmetic surgery is to improve defects, and it’s not myself. What is the most perfect face, Fan Bingbing or Li Bingbing? I may not be the kind of person who is not satisfied. I also have friends around me who do the same part once and do it again if they are not satisfied. Everyone’s aesthetics are different, right?"
Reporter’s notes:
What is beauty? We chase after explanations of "beauty" without finding satisfactory answers.
Everyone criticized "Internet celebrity face". Most of the students we interviewed did not ask to lean in that direction. Everyone wanted to be beautiful, but also wanted to be themselves.
However, although there is no standard answer to beauty, in a certain period of time, under a certain cultural background, and within a certain range of circles, people’s aesthetic preferences are prone.
One plastic surgeon said: "Doctors are human beings, and we can’t be immune to these external factors, even though we don’t want to be the same." The beauty of acquired modification will inevitably be marked by the times and the doctor’s personal style.
"Cosmetic surgery is just one part of self-building, a less important part"
Hong Shu, a college student in Hebei
Double eyelid incision surgery, double lip deformity correction surgery
"Growing up, I always felt that I was different from others, not tall enough, not good-looking enough, because my lips were also laughed at by others. When I went to college, I should improve both internally and externally, and I don’t want to be like before. Or I want to get out of my low self-esteem and some negative influences. But plastic surgery is just a part of self-building, a less important part. I also exercise, go to coffee shops to paint, attend book clubs, and write small articles."
Reporter’s notes:
Hong Shu was the only male student we came into contact with in this report. It is said that he returned to school after turning double eyelids and heard some unpleasant discussions.
However, in fact, we have learned that the number of men who have undergone cosmetic surgery has risen rapidly in recent years, although in absolute terms it is far less than that of women.
When it comes to the topic of boys’ cosmetic surgery, some students mentioned the concept of the "men’s era", believing that the era of women’s consumption of male beauty has arrived.
deceived type
"After cutting the double eyelids, I’m not allowed to get off the operating table, I have to make another nose"
Xu Jing, a student at a private university in Beijing (narrated by head teacher Liu Yun)
Double eyelid incision, rhinoplasty
"Not long ago, Xu Jing was taken to a plastic surgery facility in another province by" an older sister that I know "for a double eyelid incision. After the incision, the doctor did not allow her to go off the operating table, so she insisted on doing another nose, and finally asked for 30,000 or 40,000 yuan. She didn’t have to have plastic surgery, but this older sister invited her to dinner every three days, bought her a train ticket for the surgery, and took the initiative to swipe her credit card to pay for it. The child was embarrassed, so she did it. After she came back, she didn’t dare to tell her parents and asked her brother to pay off the debt. Now her psychological state is extremely unstable, and she said she regrets it very much."
Reporter’s notes:
It is said that Xu Jing took three days off to go out of town for plastic surgery, and when she came back, her face was terribly swollen, and she washed her face with tears every day.
This incident reminded the reporter of a friend who was tricked into stealing three mobile phones at the school gate when she was in college.
Because of kindness, innocence, cowardice, lack of self-confidence, lack of common sense and other reasons, it is not uncommon for students to be deceived. Perhaps, it is time for systematic self-protection education to go online.
(The original title is "Campus | Can you make a comeback with cosmetic surgery in the new semester?")
