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　　China Securities Journal

　　Good exposure after two boards! This water company participated in Huiyuan beverage reorganization and has paid 300 million yuan.　

　　A water company’s share price is linked to two boards, because it involves the plan of "Huiyuan Juice" reorganization and listing!

　　According to the data of CSI Taurus, on June 29th and 30th, the share price of (), which is mainly engaged in sewage treatment, tap water supply and environmental protection engineering technical services, closed at the daily limit for two consecutive days, because there was market news that "the company may inject Huiyuan juice through restructuring in the future".

　　As early as May 17, China National Water announced that the company signed the Project Cooperation Agreement with Shanghai Wensheng Asset Management Co., Ltd. (hereinafter referred to as Wensheng Investment) on April 21, hoping to jointly invest in the restructured shares of XX Company (at that time, it was referred to as "the underlying assets" because the project was in a confidential state). On April 22nd, the company paid a performance bond of 300 million yuan to Wensheng Investment.

　　Cinda Securities IPO applied for a meeting, and the second AMC listed brokerage company was ready to appear.　

　　According to the news of the CSRC on June 30th, the IPO application of Cinda Securities Co., Ltd. was approved.

　　Recently, a number of brokers are actively promoting the listing plan. The IPO application materials submitted by Open Source Securities and Warburg Securities were accepted by the CSRC on June 23rd. In addition, Huajin Securities, Shengang Securities, Hualong Securities, CDB Securities, donghai securities and many other securities firms are actively promoting their listing plans, and are currently in IPO counseling and filing.

　　Faithful wife! How will A-share investment be laid out in the second half of the year? A number of bank wealth management companies elaborated strategies.　

　　The first half of 2022 officially came to an end. Recently, the steady growth policy has gradually exerted its strength, and the A-share market has entered a rebound channel, with many sectors showing eye-catching performance.

　　How to get a shares in the second half of the year? A number of bank wealth management companies told the CSI Taurus reporter that they are firmly optimistic about the equity market. It is expected that the A-share market will fluctuate upwards and will steadily increase the allocation of equity assets.

　　On the whole, a number of bank wealth management companies will focus on the two directions of economic recovery and high economic growth, and are optimistic about new energy and electric vehicles, "new and old" infrastructure chains, post-epidemic travel, consumption and other sectors.

　　By the end of March 2022, the bank wealth management market had reached 28.37 trillion yuan, slightly lower than the 29 trillion yuan at the end of 2021. However, with the recent recovery of the capital market, the scale of the bank wealth management market is expected to enter a rebound channel.

　　Heavy! The the State Council executive meeting deployed to support the construction of major projects and issued financial bonds to raise 300 billion yuan.　

　　According to CCTV’s news on the 30th, the the State Council executive meeting held on the 29th decided to adopt policies and development financial instruments to support major projects, so as to expand effective investment and promote employment and consumption.

　　The meeting decided to use policy and development financial instruments to raise 300 billion yuan by issuing financial bonds, which will be used to supplement the capital of major projects or bridge the capital of special debt projects, and the central government will give appropriate interest subsidies.

　　Shanghai Securities News

　　Luoyang Molybdenum Industry plans to invest $1.8 billion to develop KFM copper-cobalt mine.　

　　As a world-renowned manufacturer of rare metals, () once again invested heavily in developing overseas copper mines. On the evening of June 30th, Luoyang Molybdenum announced that it planned to invest 1.826 billion US dollars to build the KFM development project (oxide ore and mixed ore) in Congo (DRC) (Phase I). According to the announcement, among the investment in this project, the engineering cost is 1.427 billion US dollars, other engineering construction costs are 161 million US dollars, and the reserve cost is 238 million US dollars. The main products of the project are cathode copper, crude cobalt oxide for hydrogen production and a small amount of copper cobalt sulfide concentrate.

　　According to the announcement, the company indirectly held 95% interest in KFM copper-cobalt mine in Congo (DRC). It is understood that KFM copper-cobalt mine is one of the largest and highest-grade undeveloped copper-cobalt mine projects in the world, and it is 33 kilometers away from the existing TFM copper-cobalt mine in the company, which has synergistic effects and unique advantages in development and operation.

　　Abundant funds In June, the average daily turnover of A shares returned to one trillion yuan.　

　　1.1 trillion yuan-the average daily turnover of A shares in June returned to more than 1 trillion yuan. As an important indicator to observe market activity and capital adequacy, the average daily turnover of over one trillion yuan was once regarded as the "normal state" of the market. From the second half of last year to January this year, the average daily turnover of A shares exceeded one trillion yuan for seven consecutive months, but it fell below one trillion yuan in February, April and May this year. Nowadays, with the deepening of the market, the daily average turnover of Shanghai and Shenzhen stock markets has returned to one trillion yuan, and the "cooperation" between funds and the market and the change of flow direction will receive more attention.

　　Transformation, focusing on specialization, guiding insurance industry to explore new ways in reform　

　　Insurance is not easy to sell, which is a big challenge for insurance companies. At present, for consumers, insurance is important but not urgent; The increase in sales difficulty further hindered the insurance signing.

　　□ At this stage, the number of marketing team members has dropped significantly. The proposal and establishment of the insurance sales classification system is a financial innovation activity that regulates the professional reform of the industry.

　　□ In recent years, the insurance protection function has been paid more and more attention, and industries such as pension, health and medical care are exporting policy dividends to the insurance industry. The insurance industry should make great efforts in product development and insurance sales, and turn the policy dividend into premium growth.

　　A-shares in the past six months: showing toughness and highlighting attractiveness　

　　On the last trading day of June, the three major A-share indexes all closed on the positive line, which ended the first half of the year. Looking back on the market in the first half of the year, faced with the environment of internal and external uncertainties, A shares were at a loss but quickly regained their confidence, showing a "V"-shaped reversal trend as a whole, showing strong resilience against the background of the general decline of overseas stock markets, and highlighting the increasing attraction of China assets.

　　As of yesterday’s close, the Shanghai Composite Index stood at 3,398.62 points, down 6.63% in the first half of the year. However, from the point of rebound at the end of April, the Shanghai Composite Index has risen by more than 17% in the past two months, and the Growth Enterprise Market Index has rebounded by more than 30%. Compared with the weakness of overseas stock markets in the same period, the strong performance of A shares can be called the "lone brave" of global stock markets.

　　Securities Times

　　Manufacturing PMI returns to the line of prosperity and decline, and the signal of comprehensive economic recovery is enhanced　

　　On June 30th, the Service Industry Research Center of the National Bureau of Statistics and China Federation of Logistics and Purchasing released the Purchasing Managers Index (PMI) of China. The data shows that both the manufacturing PMI and the non-manufacturing business activity index returned to the line of prosperity and decline in June. According to the analysis, China’s economy bottomed out in June and the recovery trend was basically established. However, we also need to see that the proportion of enterprises that reflect insufficient market demand in the manufacturing industry is still close to half, and the fundamentals of economic recovery still need to be further consolidated. It is necessary to further expand effective demand, implement the supply and price stability of important raw materials and basic products, consolidate the momentum of economic recovery, and promote the linkage recovery of industrial chains.

　　What signal does the medium and long-term deposit interest rate "upside down" release?　

　　Recently, commercial banks, including Industrial and Commercial Bank of China, China Construction Bank and China Merchants Bank, have seen the phenomenon that the interest rates of 3-year deposits are almost the same as those of 5-year deposits, and some banks even have "upside down" deposit rates. For example, the three-year and five-year fixed deposit rates of China Construction Bank are both 2.75%, and the three-year fixed deposit can rise to 3.15% when it reaches 50,000 yuan; The highest interest rate of China Bank is 3.15% for 3-year time deposits and 2.75% for 5-year time deposits.

　　Generally speaking, banks gain income through the business mode of "borrowing short and putting long", and the premium of deposit term is also the cost that banks pay to ensure the term conversion function. Therefore, banks with strong liquidity management ability are usually willing to bear a smaller deposit term premium.

　　A dismissal leads to a break! * the contradiction between ST changfang and its subsidiaries is open.　

　　On June 26th, () held a meeting of the board of directors to consider the Proposal on Removing Executive Directors and Supervisors of Holding Subsidiaries and Appointing New Executive Directors and Supervisors, which was opposed by two directors, but was finally passed by a vote of 5∶2.

　　According to the above proposal, *ST Changfang will remove Li Dichu, executive director and Chen Jing, supervisor of its subsidiary, Changfang Group Kangmingsheng (Shenzhen) Technology Co., Ltd. (hereinafter referred to as "Kangmingsheng"). It should be pointed out that Li Dichu is the founder of Kang Mingsheng. In 2015 and 2017, *ST Changfang acquired the equity of Kang Mingsheng from the original shareholders of Li Di Elementary Kang Mingsheng twice. By the end of 2018, *ST Changfang’s shareholding in Kang Mingsheng was 99.96%.

　　The high level of commodities falls back, and the downstream cost pressure slows down.　

　　Although the bulk market has rebounded as a whole this week, compared with the previous highs, many non-ferrous, black and chemical commodities still recorded a decline of about 20%. Analysts believe that the international economic recession is expected to increase in the second half of the year, and commodities may face systemic downside risks. With the strong slowdown of upstream raw material costs, domestic industrial manufacturing enterprises are expected to usher in profit improvement.

　　Commodities are now falling overall.

　　At 24: 00 on June 28, domestic refined oil prices started to decrease, which is the second downward adjustment of refined oil prices this year, and has experienced 10 rounds of upward adjustment before this year.

　　Securities daily

　　Improving the Entry Threshold and Giving Full Play to the Positive Value; Promoting the Initiative of Self-discipline Development in Digital Collection Industry　

　　Since the second half of last year, digital collections have sprung up and become a new vane of the cultural and creative industries. However, behind the prosperity, some companies lack awareness of risk control and speculate on the price of digital collections, causing local chaos.

　　On June 30th, under the leadership of China Cultural Industry Association, nearly 30 institutions jointly launched the "Self-discipline Development Initiative of Digital Collection Industry" (hereinafter referred to as the "Initiative"). Opposing speculation and improving access have become the core consensus for the high-quality development of the industry.

　　The "Initiative" consists of 14 articles. The specific contents include that the platform should have corresponding qualifications according to law, ensure the safety and controllability of blockchain technology, adhere to the real-name registration system, strengthen the capacity building of intellectual property protection, resolutely resist the prevention of financialization and malicious speculation, and advocate rational consumption.

　　It is reported that this is the most extensive self-regulatory development standard initiative in the digital collection industry. Participants include professional organizations and associations in the cultural tourism industry, cultural central enterprises, IP institutions and Internet technology companies such as Ant, Tencent, Baidu and JD.COM.

　　Substantial progress has been made in the research and development of domestic operating systems. "Open Kirin" accelerates the construction of open source ecology　

　　According to CCTV news on June 30th, recently, China’s first desktop operating system developer platform "openKylin" was officially released. The platform will create an open source desktop operating system with independent innovation technology.

　　On June 30th, Wu Hequan, an academician of China Academy of Engineering, said in an interview with the reporter: "The’ Open Kirin’ platform is a domestic software system platform jointly built by many units in the industry, which is conducive to focusing on all forces and accelerating the commercialization process of domestic operating systems. Open source method can encourage more enterprises and developers to participate and improve directly, which is a good start, is conducive to promoting the enthusiasm of industrial chain enterprises, further promoting the scale of domestic operating systems and industrial innovation and development, and is an important path for the high-quality development of China’s software industry.

　　In June, the manufacturing PMI returned to the expansion range to promote economic growth, and endogenous kinetic energy needs to be activated.

　　On June 30th, data released by the National Bureau of Statistics showed that the purchasing managers’ index (PMI) of manufacturing industry was 50.2% in June, up 0.6 percentage points from the previous month. The non-manufacturing business activity index and the comprehensive PMI output index were 54.7% and 54.1%, respectively, which were 6.9 and 5.7 percentage points higher than the previous month, and both rose to the expansion range, indicating that the economic recovery situation continued to improve.

　　"On the whole, the current economy is in the fastest period of repair. On the one hand, the smooth logistics has significantly improved the delivery time and production conditions of suppliers. On the other hand, the previously suppressed demand has been released, and the business activity index of service industry and construction industry has rebounded sharply." Wen Bin, chief economist and dean of the research institute of Minsheng Bank, told reporters that further policy care may be needed to promote the transition from natural restoration to endogenous kinetic energy activation.

　　Shanghai Stock Exchange: Constantly innovating the way of asset securitization to revitalize assets　

　　On June 30, the Shanghai Stock Exchange issued the Notice on Further Giving Play to the Function of Asset Securitization Market to Support Enterprises to Revitalize Existing Assets (hereinafter referred to as the Notice).

　　"The issuance of this Notice is one of the measures taken by the Shanghai Stock Exchange to implement the State Council’s Opinions on Further Revitalizing Stock Assets and Expanding Effective Investment. It will help enterprises to revitalize stock assets and smooth the virtuous circle of investment and financing by further promoting the issuance of asset securitization products." The relevant person in charge of the Shanghai Stock Exchange said that in the next step, the Shanghai Stock Exchange will continue to innovate the way of asset securitization to revitalize assets, broaden the depth and breadth of services in the asset securitization market, improve the quality and efficiency of serving the real economy, and promote the high-quality development of the bond market.

　　People’s Daily

　　Strong growth of global offshore wind power　

　　According to the Global Wind Energy Report 2022 recently released by the Global Wind Energy Council, in 2021, the installed capacity of global offshore wind power increased by 21.1 GW, a year-on-year increase of three times, the largest increase in history. Global offshore wind power will continue to maintain a strong growth momentum.

　　According to the report, offshore wind power accounts for 22.5% of the total installed capacity of global wind power in 2021. The global cumulative installed capacity of offshore wind power reaches 57 GW, and China has become the country with the largest cumulative installed capacity of offshore wind power. According to the data released by Bloomberg New Energy Finance, in the ranking of global wind turbine manufacturers in 2021, China wind turbine manufacturers occupy 6 seats in the top 10.

　　Global offshore wind power has great development potential. According to World Bank data, the global available offshore wind power resources exceed 71,000 GW. According to Global Wind Energy Report 2022, the annual compound growth rate of global offshore wind power is expected to reach 8.3% in the next five years, and the cumulative installed capacity will exceed 90 GW from 2022 to 2026.

> in 2021, the first phenomenal TV series has appeared-Xiao Shede.

> This TV series about "Junior High School" has an empathetic story every day. Today, what moves everyone is that Xueba Yan Ziyou reveals his heart in public:

> "I think my mother loves me, not me, but me who got full marks."

> "You always say that you are doing it for me, but it’s actually for your own face, regardless of whether I am happy or not."

> "If I have a child in the future, I will never force him to go to any remedial class. He can do whatever he wants."

> "Why is it so difficult to do what you like?"

> this is the first time that ziyou talks about his feelings publicly, and it is also the first time that ziyou, who has always been clever and sensible, has an emotional outburst. Everyone froze, only then did they know that Zi You had suffered so much at an early age.

> the outbreak of ziyou made everyone in the play and the audience outside the play begin to reflect: is the education method of ziyou’s mother Tian Yulan really right? Is it really only positive for children?

When it comes to Tian Yulan, it is estimated that everyone is familiar with it, and it is one of the roles of film and television dramas that have been hotly discussed recently.

> the label on her body is obvious-a mother who forced her children to study by hook or by crook in order to get into a key middle school (Hanlin Middle School).

> Tian Yulan’s character is full, and he stands in minutes.

> There are countless parents’ communication groups in her mobile phone, and she communicates her children’s grades with other parents all the time and shares the "secret recipe" of taking an examination of Hanlin …

She put a shelf in the most obvious position in her home, which was full of children’s certificates and trophies.

Every time I see this shelf, Tian Yulan’s eyes will light up. She thinks it is the highest light moment as a mother and the greatest embodiment of her value.

Most of her energy is spent on her children, and she is a typical mother who wants her children to succeed. Even naming her children has profound meaning. "Zi You" is homophonic for "Zi You", which means that she wants her children to be excellent.

However, with the gradual deepening of the plot, many people have also discovered that Tian Yulan is a love for Youyou, which is almost suffocating, and it makes Ziyou breathless.

> Tian Yulan attaches great importance to grades, and she knows at what stage the child should take the exam, get the first few exams before being eligible to enter Hanlin Middle School, and what grades are the safest.

> Tian Yulan asked Zi You to get into the top two of the class and the top five of the grade. While making such harsh demands, she said, "Mom doesn’t ask much of you." Zi You on the side had to eat with his head stuffy, but he was afraid to go out.

> Tian Yulan is a very nervous person. She is afraid that her children will not study hard, so after clarifying the requirements, she will warn her children once a day: Don’t take it lightly. What should I do if I don’t get into Hanlin?

> in order to keep an eye on ziyou’s dynamics, she moved ziyou’s homework place to the living room every day.

> this is similar to the learning environment of Eiko in Little Joy. Children have no privacy, and parents have a strong desire for control. They need to know what their children are doing all the time.

> to what extent is Tian yulan strict with you? Don’t miss any moment to test your child’s learning.

Zi you eats a watermelon, and she has to make a temporary spot check.

> Tian Yulan is not only strict with Zi You, but also strict with herself. She will study with Zi You and carefully annotate Zi You’s exercise book.

> In fact, this is a less obvious foreshadowing in the play, which makes a reasonable explanation for Tian Yulan’s constant efforts to force his children to study.

Because Tian Yulan has made more efforts than other parents, she will feel that it is right and reasonable for her children to study hard. She didn’t realize her mistake, but thought it was very difficult for her to be a mother.

Sure enough, Tian Yulan said the classic line from her parents’ mouth: What do you want me to do if I am a mother?

However, Tian Yulan’s problems are not limited to this one. Besides attaching importance to learning, he also likes to compare children and show off their achievements. It is the kind of mother who will let her children report their academic achievements in public, talk about their future ideals and show off all kinds of talents.

The most classic scene in Xiao Shede is Tian Yulan asking Zi You to recite Pi in public, which she thinks can show her children’s learning ability and academic performance.

> before ziyou began to recite pi, she emphatically added, "we ziyou have already broken through the 2000 mark."

> the barrage is saying, as for doing this? Maybe we don’t think so, but as far as Tian Yulan is concerned, as long as it can highlight his children’s good study, it will be.

In fact, Tian Yulan’s biggest problem in education is that she imposes her own ideas on Zi You, and she "takes it for granted" to make a choice for Zi You, never asking her children’s ideas.

> she values academic performance and thinks that nothing is important except study, so she naturally cuts off Ziyou’s "hobbies", which is the last straw to crush the camel.

Zi you likes studying biology, and his ideal is to be a biologist, which is not easy for a child who has just entered the fifth grade, because many people don’t know what their real ideal is all their lives.

However, the ants and snails studied by Ziyou are all "dirty things" in Tian Yulan’s view, which prevents Ziyou from being admitted to Hanlin Middle School.

> Tian Yulan despises Zi You’s hobby, even though Zi You is not allowed to play football on weekdays. She thinks playing football is a waste of time.

Whenever Ziyou wants to go downstairs to play football, Tian Yulan will stop him. The reason is that after playing the ball, his heart will be scattered and he can’t settle down and study.

> In the two episodes updated yesterday, Tian Yulan enrolled Ziyou in an Olympic Mathematics training class, which occupied Ziyou’s playing time.

> ziyou was dissatisfied. Tian Yulan was angry, not only did he not let ziyou play football, but he also asked ziyou to get rid of his research on biology.

It can be said that Zi You, who has just entered the fifth grade, has no fun in life, except studying.

Paradoxically, Tian Yulan decided to let Zi You run for the class committee after learning that running for class cadres would help his children go to Hanlin Middle School. In his campaign speech, he deliberately asked Zi You to add the phrase "wide interests".

> Zi You said sadly, "I didn’t have a wide range of interests before …"

> Tian Yulan said sharply, "You can recite it if you are asked to, which is so much nonsense!"

> It can be seen that in Tian Yulan’s value system, children can’t have hobbies, but they all have to serve the item of "taking an examination of key middle schools".

Tian Yulan can do everything for her children’s study, so sometimes she is not rational, which also silently affects the formation of Zi You’s character.

For example, when she learned that Mr. Zhong was running a remedial class in furniture, she reported it decisively, which eventually led to Mr. Zhong being expelled from school.

Later, she hoped that Ziyou would attend the gold medal class in the counseling institution. It happened that the teacher in the gold medal class was Ms. Zhong, who was ousted by her. Finally, Tian Yulan threw down her face and apologized to Ms. Zhong in public, just to let Ziyou enter the gold medal class smoothly.

> all this quilt leisurely see in the eye, zi you looked at Tian Yulan humble apology on the stage, a person silently shed tears.

We can think about how much pressure Tian Yulan put on Zi You.

> Zi You has just entered the fifth grade, and his life values have not been fully established. When he saw his mother doing this, he invisibly carried a "good student burden", thinking that he would be sorry for his parents if he didn’t study hard, and then the pressure was increasing.

> and Tian Yulan said to Xiaoyou more than once, "Mom did it for you, and studying well is the biggest reward for her".

These words have imperceptibly accelerated Zi You’s precocious personality and increased the pressure Zi You bears.

You can see intuitively that Ziyou, who grew up in this environment, is slowly changing. He began to become taciturn, did not like to talk or laugh, and lost a lot of youthful vitality.

> at the beginning, ziyou was not like this.

> ziyou was originally a lovely young man. When her aunt’s daughter was depressed, she would comfort Huanhuan with the story of a little ant. She was simply a lovely little angel.

However, in recent episodes, Ziyou has become more and more bored, and he likes to pick his fingers more and more, and even his thumb has been peeled off by him.

It is noteworthy that finger-picking and finger-biting are all called concrete manifestations of mental stress in psychology.

> ziyou has come to this step, which does have the negative impact of Tian Yulan’s extreme education method.

> There is a talented girl named Mi Tao in Ziyou’s class. Tian Yulan always likes to compare Ziyou and Mi Tao. Sometimes Ziyou is just one behind, and Tian Yulan will say, "You are a long way from Mi Tao. Are you still shy to meet people?"

For a child, this kind of words will quickly hit the child’s self-confidence, leading to more and more inferiority and less confidence in himself.

> ziyou was humiliated by teacher zhong’s language in the gold medal class, and was scolded for not having a long brain and his head was full of wood, which aggravated ziyou’s unconfident and unhappy state.

After Ziyou was humiliated by Mr. Zhong’s language, he wished that he could be protected by his parents and that his parents could stand with him.

But Tian Yulan didn’t speak for Zi You. She felt that it was nothing for children to get some training in their studies.

> at that moment, ziyou’s eyes were lost, sad and puzzled.

As a young man, he couldn’t understand why he was scolded by his teacher for no reason, but his mother didn’t speak to him.

Later, Ziyou seriously put forward that he didn’t want to attend Mr. Zhong’s class. As a result, this proposal was rejected by Tian Yulan again.

> ziyou’s call for help didn’t get a response.

> The biggest reason that Tian Yulan doesn’t want Zi You to leave the gold medal class is that the gold medal class can help Zi You improve his grades, and the second exam is A+. Tian Yulan thinks that only the grades are real, and the others are empty.

In his view, his mother would rather let him be scolded than let him leave the gold medal class. His mother only has grades in her eyes, and she will only smile when she treats him with good grades. As long as he fails in the exam once, he will be greeted with negation, reprimand and more papers.

> that’s why ziyou said that "my mother doesn’t love me, but I got full marks".

> Tian Yulan couldn’t figure out why she did this, but she was still not well studied by her son. Before Ziyou’s emotional outburst, she thought her education method was right.

However, as we can see, Tian Yulan’s education method actually has a big problem.

> first of all, she didn’t talk to Ziyou as an independent person. Tian Yulan always has an identity repression on Ziyou. Simply put, I am your mother, and you have to listen to me.

Secondly, Tian Yulan pays too much attention to Zi You’s achievements, thus ignoring Zi You’s development in other aspects and mental health problems. Typical look too far, without taking into account the development of children at this stage.

She doesn’t realize how important hobbies and mental health are to a child. She is too "achievement-oriented", which leads to the child’s rebellious mentality gradually.

Thirdly, Tian Yulan’s undisciplined educational methods also increase the pressure on children.

> To be fair, Tian Yulan’s starting point is good, and she hopes that her children will be knowledgeable and not rely on others to earn their future. However, in many cases, the methods she uses are wrong, such as inadvertently comparing her children’s learning and blindly suppressing their self-confidence … all of which make her backfire.

The appearance of Tian Yulan really gave many people a reflection. Parents are too nervous and pay too much attention to their grades, thus neglecting their children’s growth. Obviously, there is a big problem with this educational method.

Parents should not be "achievement-oriented" and should not make choices for their children for granted. If they blindly educate their children according to their own ideas, their children will be on the verge of collapse, and Ziyou is the best example.

Another homonym of "Ziyou" is "freedom". Many parents want to make their children excellent, but they don’t find that they are deprived of their childhood freedom.

> and in Xiao Shede, the education method of another family is not completely correct.

> Unlike Tian Yulan, Nan Li and Xia Junshan always wanted their children to grow up healthily and happily, so they named their daughter Xia Huanhuan. A happy "Huan" is not enough. It takes two "Huan" to show the couple’s hope for their children.

Huanhuan is a little princess at home, her father is a "daughter slave" and her brother is a "sister slave". Her mother has no strict requirements for her study, so the whole family holds Huanhuan in their hands.

Such children are really happy, but after a long time, there will be some problems.

> first of all, such a family atmosphere makes Huanhuan enjoy the feeling of holding the moon with many stars. She can’t accept that others ignore her existence, so when Huanhuan’s grades drop, she will cry and ask Nanli if she becomes a poor student and no one likes her.

Secondly, Nanli only values Huanhuan’s happiness and unhappiness, and cares too much about Huanhuan’s feelings, which will make Huanhuan develop a character that can’t accept blows and can’t accept external denial.

Therefore, we often shed tears when we see Huanhuan, and a little thing can be the cause of her emotional breakdown.

> poor test results, crying;

> cried when outsiders said that their grades were not good;

> didn’t run for the class Committee, crying;

> The more times Huanhuan shed tears, the more it means that parents need to pay attention to Huanhuan’s mental health and gradually establish a stronger psychological defense line for her, but no, the Nanli family still follows Huanhuan in everything.

> For example, Nan Li resolutely refused to let Huanhuan attend remedial classes at first, hoping that her children would have a happy childhood;

> however, after seeing that all the students around her went to the remedial class, Huanhuan volunteered to take the remedial class. In the face of the children’s requirements, the couple did not know in detail whether the remedial class was suitable for their children, but blindly reported a competition class to their children.

> two people agree that the children are asking for help when they say that they are bullied by their classmates because of their poor grades. Facing the children’s help, they can’t from ruin.

So Nan Li went to great pains to enroll Huanhuan in this competition class. She just wanted her children to be happy now.

But we also saw that Huanhuan didn’t become happy after attending the competition class, but became more and more unhappy. She couldn’t understand what the teacher said, and she couldn’t help wondering if she was too stupid.

Nan Li only wanted to send her children to the competition class to make them happy, but did not consider whether the children could keep up with the progress of the competition class. If the children didn’t take the initiative to say that they didn’t understand, Nan Li didn’t know that the children were suffering so much in the competition class.

> at this time, they began to reflect on themselves. They didn’t know much about the competition class and the teachers in the competition class, and they didn’t know what the teachers were talking about every day, thinking that sending the children in would be enough.

> This almost plunged Huanhuan into a vicious circle. She lacked the ability to resist setbacks, and her parents sent her to the competition class according to her wishes. She didn’t understand and felt more frustrated. Being humiliated by the teacher in public made my brain dull and my frustration even worse, so my body and mind were very tired.

Huanhuan has also undergone some changes. The little girl who used to be confident and lively is now uninterested in anything. No matter how Nan Li makes her happy, she only has three words: boring.

> ziyou, huanhuan, both children have changed their personalities in family education, which shows that the word "education" is easier said than done.

> Tian Yulan only pays attention to children’s grades, thus ignoring children’s mental health problems;

Nan Li only pays attention to the children’s present happiness, thus ignoring the children’s ability to resist blows.

> The starting point of the two people is good. One wants to make the child a great success in the future, and the other wants to make the child worry-free all his life. But they both forget that the child can’t be preset by parents, and parents need to grow up with the child.

> The appearance of these two characters is actually to make us reflect on ourselves. Some netizens even said that Rulu cured my mother’s anxiety.

Both Tian Yulan and Nan Li are imposing their wishes on their children.

> Tian Yulan has no sense of security since he was a child, so he hopes that Zi You can learn with real talent and no one can take it away.

Nan Li is unhappy because her parents divorced when she was a child, so she hopes Huanhuan can spend every day happily without being disturbed by troubles.

They all ignored the word "big environment" and did not adjust their education methods according to the changes at this stage, thus falling into a dilemma.

The relationship between parents and children is not the relationship between who suppresses who, but the relationship between comrades-in-arms. Everyone should fight side by side and blame and upgrade.

There are no perfect children, perfect parents and perfect education in the world. What parents can do is to join hands with their children and walk through this difficult and dangerous road, but they will eventually see the dawn.

On this road, parents should always adjust their education methods according to the changes of the environment, and really teach students in accordance with their aptitude. This is very difficult, because there is no fixed process for every parent to refer to, but after deep thinking, this may be the true meaning of "nurturing".

> The families that Xiao Shede focuses on are actually the real educational methods that we have laid out at present, and they are the true epitome of thousands of families. Our emotion is true and our reflection is true.

What we should seriously think through Xiao Shede is that parents and children are two independent individuals, and on this basis, it is possible to succeed together.

For parents and children, this is a life course that requires lifelong credits.

Fortunately, Xiao Shede reveals this aspect for us. It is cruel, but the feelings are more real.